Wedding Photography Tips: Lessons from a San Diego Photographer

Bride and groom exchanging vows outdoors during a San Diego wedding ceremony

So, a couple of weeks ago, I had an opportunity to assist a fellow Photographer In Training graduate with photographing a couple of weddings, which of course I was happy to oblige. Here are some wedding photography tips from my experience as a San Diego photographer.

Why Second Shooters Make a Difference

The nice thing about being a second shooter is that you don’t carry all the stress that comes with photographing a wedding. The downside, of course, is you don’t make as much money.

As the primary photographer, you’ll likely be covering everything from engagement sessions to the rehearsal dinner, the ceremony, preparation, and of course, prints and the final album. That’s why I highly recommend factoring in the cost of a second shooter. You’ll thank me later.

A second shooter allows you to capture the most important moments while they focus on details or angles that might otherwise be missed.

Have a Game Plan with Your Team

After meeting with the couple, take the time to meet with your second shooter to go over all the details. If possible, have them attend the initial client meeting. There’s nothing worse than showing up on the big day and not knowing where to stand or when to move. Preparation prevents headaches.

Build a Relationship with the Wedding Coordinator

The wedding coordinator is your friend. They run the show, so pay close attention to their instructions. At one wedding, I was told not to maneuver during the ceremony. After speaking with the coordinator, she not only gave me tips but also granted permission to roam the entire venue.

When in doubt, ask questions—they’ll often help make your job easier.

Capture the Prep Moments (and Keep It Clean)

If you’re photographing the bride or groom while getting ready, make sure the space is clean. No one wants clutter in the background of their once-in-a-lifetime photos.

And here’s a tip: grooms usually aren’t thrilled about being photographed while preparing. You may need to coax them a bit. I always remind them how happy past clients have been to have those candid pre-ceremony shots.

Gear and Backup Essentials

Always be prepared. Before the wedding day, make sure all your equipment is tested and ready to go—cameras, batteries, flashes, strobes, light stands, memory cards, and soft boxes. And yes, bring extra batteries—especially if you’re using flash.

Social Media and Permissions

Most of the time, you won’t need model release forms at weddings. Still, always let the couple know you may use some of their images for social media or portfolio purposes. Clear communication upfront builds trust.

Don’t Forget to Eat

It sounds small, but trust me: the wedding planner will usually make sure you get fed—often right after the bride and groom. That way, you’ll have the energy to capture every special moment without missing a beat.

Camera Settings Matter

Indoor vs. outdoor weddings can mean big changes in your camera settings. Be ready to adjust your aperture, ISO, shutter speed, and white balance on the fly. Take a few practice shots as soon as you can so you’re dialed in.

Final Thoughts for Aspiring Wedding Photographers

If you’re thinking of getting into this niche, start out as a second shooter. It’s one of the best ways to learn on the job—seeing what works, what doesn’t, and how to handle the pressure.

And above all, don’t stress too much. Most couples appreciate your presence and effort more than you realize. There’s no perfect formula, so go out, have fun, and make the most of every wedding you shoot.

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